21.  Religious or not, learn the Serenity prayer   (go look for it, reread it) 22.  If you want to help yourself & make a huge impact on this earth spend time with a child   … more later 23.  Helping others without becoming a enabler is also pretty cool  –

#26      The “When”  is sometimes all we need to know –  Not mine – stolen from Zen, borrowed from SDP There are many times you do the work, put in the energy to get it perfect – then plow through the end, not getting it quite right. “When” applies to execution, to do it correctly…

Do you live wide? or Do you live deep? (try a little of everything? or creature of habit?) In the land of H theories, you talk wide, consider wide, dabble at wide, but you really live deep.

15. Take the high road whenever possible, it will get you where you want to go and need to be, faster. (read the words slowly, embrace them at your core)

Effort + Energy = Profit – it’s all about the ROI’S whether it is personal, business or family – this applies

Howard Theories are like Saturdays, some work, some play, simply enjoyable.  Shelley gave the “Theories” a name.   First – It’s not about you, but the next generation you bring along.  Give them something to work with.   Theory 1 – Life is small victories, shared with family and friends. Corny and true.   1…