When considering your own life on some sort of a continuum, or are an advisor to many others, or a employer to some, a parent, uncle. I am all. This is an old theory for me, but in the last few years i’ve had to use it several times.

Hold a mirror up to the issues, the problem, the dysfunction … no judgement, just hold the mirror.

By just doing that, some clarity creeps in ever so slowly.

Sometimes you want to hit someone with a mirror, but don’t, thats not nice.